by the way i choose to stay in my husband until i save money.what is the best way to revenge my husband.aside from not cooking and treating him as if hes not exist but i try to be polite every time i talk to him.
i want the things that will hurt him that he didn’t know that i was the one whose doing it.
btw,i don’t want to cheat since i have moral and values to myself.
thanks
Tags: Cheating Husband, Money, Moral Values, Revenge
You are in an unhealthy relationship. There’s no point in staying. I am sorry but I cannot provide you answers on how to get your revenge on your husband.
Actually, you are just using him until you get money to leave. What is all the revenge crap.
Get a loan and leave. As it is, you are not much better than he has been.
Just be as nice as you can be, that will make him wonder, you don’t have to take revenge everything will take care of itself.
put super glue in the locks of his car. (when it is locked)
You know the best way…be nice to him. Show him how much better of a person you are…make him miss you…make him sorry he hurt you and can never have you back. That will make him take accountability for him treating you so badly.
It doesn’t mean you forgave him or will not leave…it just means he will know what a screw up he is and regret losing you.
NOT only that but, it will hurt him and you will feel great knowing all the blame is on him.
Two wrongs don’t make it right..
You are justifying bad choices which is wrong.
well that’s nice you have morals and values so therefore u would not cheat back but you want revenge, hun this makes no sense the best advice is to talk to ur husband, about the situation if he refuses to admit his mistake and move on then that’s up to u do do the next best thing which is a divorce but wanting revenge is basically screwing yourself over, there’s several people whose gone to jail and endend up homeless because of this kind of situation, good luck!1
I’m sorry to hear about your situation but honestly the best thing you could do is think and care more about yourself then him or what you can do to him. don’t be vendictive. don’t try to hurt him. he’s not off the hook remember there is a God and he works in mysterious ways and i think adultery is definitely a no-no in his book
I agree with your first answerer, its never a good idea to seek revenge on anyone, its best that u end it for good, or u guys seek counselling if u are willing to work it out with him, but never ever a good reason to seek revenge hun!
stop caring and stop using him for money until you can get out because that is just an excuse, 10 years from now you’ll be saying the same thing about saving money and he will still be cheating so if your unhappy and cant live with him knowing he cheated and will probably do it again then find a way out now
revenge is pointless. if you want to leave so bad just do it…you won’t do yourself or him any favors by staying around cause money will certainly always be tight by clinging to others. if you have morals and values then you know revenge isn’t the answer…moving away is.
It depends on what kind of cheating he did. Was it a full blown affair or was it that someone more compatible to him came in his life which actually helped him ? Do not think of revenge , that will neither help him nor you. Instead if you can forgive him and pardon him , you can bring the lost glory in your matrimonial life back again.
Quiet as kept ………….. you’re morals aren’t that high right now ……. seeing how much time you’re still willing to waste on him.
It doesn’t take as much energy to move on as it does to revenge him. When this puppy cheated you were hurt, what happens if your plan doesn’t go as planned? You’ll be even worst off.
Let God handle that battle for you and spend your time taking care of the one person that he didn’t take care of ………… Yourself!
p.s. If you really want to hurt him ………. Bounce Back!
From: Ms. MaJuLQQK
Do whatever you have to do for yourself until you have the funds & everything you need in order to just get away from him. Don’t cook. clean, do his laundry. Do everything just for yourself as you see fit. I’m sure things w/come to you as time goes by, You are far too good for him to lower yourself to his standards, Come & go as you please, & you sure don’t owe him any explinations Just make sure you have taken everything into consideration & make sure you have everything you w/need before you leave. Write lists for yourself if you have to as you sure don’t owe him anything. All you have to leave by law is a table, chair, couple dishes & a place for him to sleep on. I feel just the tho’t of being alone, w/be punishment for him. You could put the word “cheater” in his drawers & in places he w/find them. Just take care of you, & get away from him as soon as you can so you don’t have to face him every day. OR you could do a complete about face & kill him w/kindness!!! That one would surely hurt…ALL the best to you…:)
The best revenge is living well!!!!
They will always wonder what if when you are living the good life…
All the other acts of “revenge” are really just ways to get your deep anger out.
You will be a better person living the good life!
Girl, who don’t have to actually cheat to show him how it feels and to enjoy getting even with him. You can make him think you are without even doing it. You know all the signs of a cheating spouse, use that knowledge against him.
Go to the movies with a friend or shopping and refuse to tell him where you have been. Act like you are hiding something. Be mysterious and secretive. Best of all take a little week-end trip with a friend or alone. Don’t tell him who your friend is, just make up a woman’s name. If he starts asking you a lot of questions, blow him off and tell him to stop giving you the third degree. Like I said, be very secretive.
Then when you are ready to leave, tell him he just isn’t what you need in a man and you have found happiness somewhere else. If he ask you if you have been cheating on him, just smile and laugh and say now you know we don’t have that kind of a relationship. What would make you think I would have any reason to make a fool out of you, by enjoying the company of a man who can satisfy all my needs? If he keeps pushing you for information, just tell him it’s over, accept it, I don’t love you and I don’t want you in my life.
Just let him think without admitting to anything that you left him for another man. You know you didn’t, but it will piss him off and make him feel he wasn’t man enough for you and you found someone a lot better.
The best and only revenge you should consider is after divorcing him, live a happy and meaningful life that is not filled with revenge and hatred.